skids report cards came thru this am, its parent/teacher conference night tonight but bf wont be home to read b4 he goes in so pretty much had to relay the gist over the phone so he wasn't going in blind.

SS10. fucking genius who got the highest mark in school for computer tech and art, higher than year sevens. awesome, no probs. teacher says he suspects mild auspergers but fuck whatever. so he cant be totally social yet...don't strap autism crap on him yet he might be a late bloomer, ill give him another year before i send him for testing. BF and me on same page with this.

SS8. omg. basically the laziest human being that the teacher has ever encountered. asks bf...what am i supposed to do with him, do you have any ideas??? no. i see him once ever 2 weeks. we encourage reading, no xbox, outdoor play. the works. he is basically not a burden on other kids, doest hassle..but it took him 3.5 hours to do a math test that took the rest of his class to do in 45 minutes, because he cant be arised. i dunno what to do with this kid. any suggestion would be appreciated. i have tried to read to him, draw, everything. he don't care.

and another thing.

the kids do not do homework....BM says the reason we cant have then overnights on schoolnights..they have homework to do. we live closer to school than she does.
xbox is clearly the primary caregiver in that house.