crazy things psycho BM does
I thought it would be fun to list some crazy things BM has done...
1-right before DH & I met she took his truck (she was the primary loan holder & they'd only separated at that point). After we'd dated for a month she decided she couldn't make the truck payments so she gave it back & took her car back. She left a used pregnancy test in the truck (gross) & told DH she'd thought that maybe she was pregnant with his child (test was negative). So she'd moved her boyfriend she'd been sleeping with in the day after DH moved out...
2-she's moved 3 men in & out of her 2 bedroom apartment in 3 years.
3-she had a baby with BF #2 while she was sleeping with BF #3 & named DH as a possible father when BF#2 refused 2 pay child support. He had to get a paternity test.
3-she refused to actually sign the papers & officially divorce DH. We had to serve her the papers & wait for her lack of response to get a default divorce.
4-after BF#2 left her, he took the car he'd bought with him. We have her her old car back (DH had co signed for it, we'd been trying to sell it). BF#3 bought her another car, so she just quit paying the first car until it got repossessed. On DH's credit too now.
5-she lives off CS. 3 kids, a 2 room low income apartment & no attempt to get off her fat a** & make her life better.
6-she will pass off her kids on anyone. She doesn't show up to pick them up on time ever, we usually just take them home so we aren't waiting 5 hours (it's happened) on her.
7-she'll bitch that DH has to buy them clothes then throw said clothes in the trash when they come home in them (have witnesses for this). Then she wonders why BS1 gets baby gap & SK's get garage sales & hand me downs.
8-she filed criminal charges on her own bro-in-law saying he assaulted her, said it wasn't true & she'd drop the charges, then didn't. He got convicted.
9-uses her children to spy on DH & I, will do anything to them to control DH & has no use for them otherwise.
10-never paid a penny of the $30000 debt left from the divorce. All of it was up to DH to pay since he has a job & she doesn't. We plan to go to court since that's a violation of the divorce decree but it's just going to cost us more while we get it straightened out.
I believe we get what we give in life & that in a lot of ways her awful attitude/lifestyle has been her karma, but not to the extent that we've struggled as a direct result of her selfish actions. Call me blood thirsty but I want to see her deal with what we've gone through.
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She sounds similiar to my BM I think they have the same manual
The only thing that I am grateful for is the bioytch had her tubes tied otherwise she would be having more kids for money. BM knows how to play the system and knew how to play my DH when they were married. Who believes that birth control pills fail all 3 pregnancies?? My DH was stupid enough to believe it....
BM did: (there isn't enough time...for DH trial there is over 30 pages of documentation of her stupid sh*t)
Borrow money from MIL (but never pay back) for the bills....oops bills were still not paid and MIL never questioned why EVERY month they had no money when DH worked 2 jobs. This wasn't a every once in a while thing.....it was every month. BM used the money on herself and her boyfriends.
Drop the kids off to any one that would take them and she was a stay at home Mom. I have never got to stay home with my kids and this is one thing that makes my blood boil.
Had all 3 kids in special ed...making up problems so she wouldn't have to help with homework. When DH got 2 of them in the divorce...imagine...they are both making honor roll.
Cheated on DH then came up pregnant a month later after they got back together.....hmmm he doesn't look like anyone on my DH side of the family and he doesn't want to admit to it.
Signed over my DH car over to her Mom when he was working out of town. When the divorce was over he had to give her the "car". He took it all apart and kept the engine and transmission. Gave it to her on a trailer in pieces. The order never said the "car" had to be intact and in working order.
Only started buying her kids clothes after she filed for custody this past year. The last order was stupid. Dh paid 100% for 2 kids she had the youngest. She honestly had it put in the decree down to socks and shoes and school supplies! She is now upset that Dh is asking for CS on 2 kids and she can't afford it. (She makes $30 an hour so no judge is going to believe that and in our county doesn't like when any parent tries to wiggle out of support)
BM is wondering why 2 kids don't want to live with her....She has called them retarted to their face and grounds them for any little thing. She is concentrating on the oldest to live with her. Ironic, when he was a baby she couldn't have cared less.
BM moved within a walking distance from the schools......so her fat lazy ass doesn't have to take them to the sports activities. That is the oldest fear about living with her.
What BM doesn't know is that my MIL told SS15 that he will be "cut" off if he lives with his mother. The kid still wants to believe in her even though she is a constant liar.