Ok, so here is the low down....BF wanted custody of SS and asked BM for custody. She said no...then called a few weeks later and needed money to pay off court fines..BF said "are you crazy, we are not together, ask your new BF to give you money!" So what does BM do? Offer to sign over custody for the money to pay court fines...she sold her son :jawdrop:!!! I know that is what I said! Fast forward almost 5 years and now BM wants SS back. WTF, seriously, did you just now realize that you sold your son! Where have you been these last 5 years. Did I mention that BM has no license, until BF MADE her come and get SS for visits and that she rarely pays her CS, she is over 5,000 behind. She claims their is domestic violence in my house and that I abuse my SS. Yeah, me and BF have fought in the past, but NEVER to the point that the police had to be called or we would hit each other. Did I mention that she was arrested for domestic battery and plead guilty....on the husband she now lives with! Nor have I ever EVER abused my SS in any way, In fact, I have been the only stable motherly figure he has had in his life. She thinks pitting him against me and BF will work for her benefit and emotional game playing is one of her favorite past times! She may be his mother, but she doesn't EVER have his best interest at heart and it breaks my heart. She has admitted that she is jealous because I get to be with SS all the time while she doesn't. She lives rather far away and only sees him twice a month...but that is HER fault. We have told her that if she moved closer she could see him more, but she doesn't want to. I have yet to see this women sacrifice for SS, not even ONCE! It seems that all she thinks about is herself and that SS is there to please her and full fill her emotional needs. I could go on and on about all the times she played games, hurt SS by her bs and etc....It just sucks that as a SM I have no rights though I sacrifice for SS and try to be the best role model I can for him!