Tomorrow it will be two weeks since SO and I had an argument. This is a small victory considering all the other crap.

I think it's mostly in part to
1) couples counseling
2) meeting with SS's child psychologist and me doing what she told me ... basically calling out SS on behavior
3) SO not spending as much time with shitty wife of friend or friend and standing up to them about my place in his life
4) him standing up to SS about my place is SO life
5) me working on my issues left over from my borderline mother

I hope I'm not jinxing myself