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BLUEEYES's picture

Submitted by BLUEEYES on Tue, 09/14/2010 - 9:05am

okay can someone tell me what this means?? I don't get it maybe cause I dont think like that BM... the girls came home yesterday and told me that their mom and grandma call them or say to them oh stop you are being a Kristina right now, or stop that and they call them their dads name i don't get it.. Why doo they focus so much on what we do or anything for that matter.

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Tx mommy of 3's picture

Submitted by Tx mommy of 3 on Tue, 09/14/2010 - 9:14am

They're making fun of you and your husband. They are making t seem as if what you guys do is bad/wrong and puttingyou guys in a negative light. Your dh needs to call bm out on it.

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Submitted by Moon Child Step Mom on Tue, 09/14/2010 - 9:18am

It’s passive aggressive mind washing at its finest… when the girls are doing something their mum or grand sees as “bad” they put a label on it as “you’re being just like your father”… ingraining a seed of negativity as far as the action and the person they’re being compared to goes. And it’s very childish behavior if you ask me…

And speaking from experience ( I heard many a “you’re just like your mother’s” growing up) kids end up resenting the person who uses those tactics.