I dread the switch days.Even though I am treated as if I am invisible and don't exist, I hate the negativity,glaring and laziness of it all.I have disengaged and that only seems to have added to my frustration ,because now all the things that I have disengaged from become last minute emergencies or never get done.DH just seems to have the ability to not let that stuff bother him or he doesn't care anymore.I need to learn his technique......Now, on the flip side when they go back to the other house my mood improves greatly.I can come home and find the food that I have in the fridge for dinner is still there and has not been consumed as a "snack" and my bathroom items such as hairbrush,razor,shampoo etc are where I left them and not missing.Not have to feel like Big Brother is watching and reporting my every move.So for a few days my old self comes back only to dread the switch day again.A sad circle to live in,any suggestions on how you cope with this?