FH and I have been together for 3 years. Together we have 8 children. Yep, an entire team. My children: D28, S25, D21, and S16. His children: D23 (with 2 poorly behaved 3 and 4 yo children), D16, D13, and D10. Two BM: 1 for D23 and another for the other 3. To keep things short, I'll explain that FH is passive and often uses avoidance. From this, he's been a people pleaser most likely all of his life. I will also add that recently he's increased his frequency of alcohol intake to where he is sometimes irrational and makes poor decisions.