I have come to the realization that I don't like my future SD. I love the relationship I share with my fiancé but as a family it just doesn't come together. Now I am asking myself will this ever work because it's nothing you can tell him about FSD it's always an excuse for her behavior. I'm damn sick of it because I know FSD plays on his intelligence to the point of manipulating any situation to get what she wants or her way. I see right through her & she knows it but what can I do differently to make him see it.

My partner (fiancé) whom I have been with for 4 years has a daughter who is 9 & is turning 10 in the next couple of months. The issue I'm having now is that lately she has been having these anxiety attacks when SD is away from her mom not so much when she is in school but if she is staying away maybe for a weekend & even in the house. SD & my partner spend a lot of time together & I mean a lot of time to the point that all she knows is her mom. In the beginning of our relationship we've had some struggles as you can probably imagine. At this point we still have some issues.

Every time SD claims she is not feeling well my fiance doesn't do the proper protocol like check temperature etc... & SD ends up staying home from school. I know that people should keep their children home from school if they are REALLY sick. Its common for a child to attend school with a couple of sniffles, kleenex & hand Sanitizer. Yesterday SD came home from school sneezing which could be a cold. I know the flu thing is running rampant across the world. I really don't think its that's serious. SD is walking around, eating, being normal.