My sister, who is my BF, got p*ssy with me and griped that I've become "emotionally distant" over the past year. *scratch_one-s_head*

Um, well, we've been in a pandemic for one year now. And under house arrest, er, quarantine, for most of that time. Add to the fact that the two of us are... apple and orange, for lack of a better analogy (who has a better one?).

Extrovert vs Introvert

Sis: Social butterfly extrovert who likes to go out with friends at least twice a week; typically almost daily. 
Ani: Introvert, keeps socializing to a minimum (even when there is no quarantine). Bonus: No need to make excuse at this time to turn down invites!

Sis: Thinks she is A Rebel because she has been "breaking quarantine" to hang out with friends the entire time.
Ani: Considers "breaking quarantine" to be going for a long drive and hanging out on the isolated beach or in the woods with DH and that Sis' definition of Rebel is a bit whack.

Sis: Goes to work Every Single Day. The ONE change? Wearing masks.
Ani: Has been WFH for a solid year and never wants to return to the cacophony of the office.

Sis: Frequently invites me to "break quarantine" and hang out with her and her friends (one I very much dislike).
Ani: Gives the legitimate excuses of a) I will not socialize with Toxic Tw*t for ANY reason (and Sis knows this), 2) while the Offsets seem like a nice couple, them pushing to get to know me better is... weird to me, and iii) I sleep in on Sundays and am not about to haul my arse out of bed at 0530 to meet you REBELS for breakfast. 

Obviously, the pandemic and quarantine have put serious cramps in Apple's social life, while Orange here is perfectly content to stay at home. AS USUAL. But it is bloody frustrating to be asked time after time after time after time when I have given her the same responses Every.Single.Time. Even before this started, my responses would have been the same! And it's not like we were going out together a lot pre-pandemic - probably 2-3x a year (and we HAVE had dinner together twice), sooooooo... 

So last night, she asked it I wanted to go to breakfast this Sunday. 

Ani: No, thank you.
Sis: Why not?
Ani: Sunday is the only day I get to sleep in. You know that.
Sis: TT won't be there, just the Offsets, so you can come. 
Ani: Thanks, but, again, I sleep in on Sundays.  
Sis: What the hell is going on with you?!
Ani: What are you talking about?? I like sleeping in on Sundays.
Sis: Something is wrong. You've been emotionally distant since this (pandemic) started.
Ani: Emotionally distant?? What ARE you talking about? We still talk on the phone regularly and for HOURS.
Sis: There is SOMETHING going on with you. Why won't you go to breakfast with us? 
Ani: Good grief. I LIKE TO SLEEP IN on Sundays.
Sis: The Offsets really want to get to know you. You need to stop hiding at home. 
Ani: OMG, I am not hiding at home. I simply have no desire to haul my cookies out of bed. 
Sis: You're keeping something from me. 
Ani: Yeah, okay. Whatever.
Sis: Your emotional distance act is a bunch of crap!! Knock this sh!t off!!!
Ani: Aaaaaaaand I'm done with this conversation. TTYL.

What.The.Hell. To me, it seems like something is bothering HER. Could it really be as simple as me not wanting to go out for a breakfast playdate and make new friendsies with the Offsets? Nothing against them, but I have zero interest in adding to my friend collection at this time and do NOT understand the push. Maybe they want to indoctrinate me into a breakfast cult... Thoughts?