Poor SS, always the victim. Yeah right, always like to play the victim.

DH and I didn't have time to sit down with SS last night because he left for work right after DH got home and got in the shower. So I told him to expect to sit down with us tonight before going to work.

Earlier yesterday afternoon, I had to get some papers out of a box I had in my previous office closet, now SS's room/closet. What do I find in his closet but a jar of peanut butter. We have a rule of no food in the bedrooms because we have a crazy problem with (sugar) ants where we live. I put the PB on the bed, intending to talk to SS about it when he got home from work.

I had to run to the bank to deposit some money, SS got home and went to bed before I got back. After work, DD and I had appointments to get a manicure, as our last chance of mommy/daughter time before she goes back to school. When we get back, SS was already leaving for work, and I forgot to talk to him about the PB. I go to get it from his room and it's not on his bed or night stand...I find it back in the damn closet!

I grab the PB, and then notice dirty clothes on his floor, AGAIN. I throw the clothes on his bed and what do I find on his floor...a dirty spoon. So I text him asking why he thinks the "no food in the bedrooms" rule doesn't apply to him but I find a spoon in his room. He says the spoon was from his lunch/dinner at work the night before, but "thanks for jumping to conclusions again". I am about to text him back about the PB, when DH says to drop it, we'll talk to him about it all tomorrow night (now tonight). So all I respond is "you're welcome".

I then get a text from him that says "I'll try to be out by the first if that will make you feel better".

LOL oh SS, don't make this about me, or how I feel. This isn't my fault, and it doesn't have anything to do with how I feel about you. This is about you constantly thinking you're above the rules, and breaking them over and over. This is about you throwing a drinking party in my house while I'm gone!!!

DH "says" he's giving SS an ultimatum tonight: either find a place to live and be out in the next 30 days or join the military...we'll see if he follows through.