I ended up subjected to SD16s whining nonsense yesterday.

here is what it consisted of

1. Mom's friend is only going to the gym once a week now. So I can only go then because mom won't take me.
2. Mom was mean for not meeting you with the treadmill so that I can work out at home.

problem with these statements?

Dad has a family membership to the Y. Only occasionally does SD go on the weekends. SS13 goes every chance he gets. SD either watches a movie in her room, has her dad take her shopping, or sleeps while they are gone.

SD keeps forgetting her work out clothes and shoes when she comes. Seriously its all you hear about, she must exercise, but she forgets to pack shorts a t-shirt and tennis shoes?

Solution, daddy went and bought her two workout outfits that must stay here and a $100 pair of tennis shoes "that are just really awesome". That's what they did when SS was at the gym a few weeks ago. Mind you, I told SO a year ago to have SD bring 2 outfits of the many he already bought her (and shoes) to keep at our house. He never did. So he took her to the mall to buy more.

This weekend, SO and SS are off to the gym and what does SD do? She stays home watches a movie and sleeps. Says she didn't get much sleep this week and has a sore throat. She says, this always happens when I don't get enough sleep. No one has bothered to ask her why she didn't get enough sleep. It isn't because she was studying so hard or working on an extracurricular. We all know what she was doing and SO just passively accepts it. She stays up late texting with her friends and watching tv. Then drags herself out of bed and tries to nap when she gets home from school. She's so coddled. And BM is also a moron for not shutting off electronics and taking phones at bedtime... as if they really have a bedtime.

This is what happens when you have a lazy BM and a lazy Dad.