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It's almost friday, again!

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Thu, 10/14/2010 - 4:36pm

So, it's been 3 weeks since sd's come to our house. I'm wondering if she'll come tomorrow. DH usually doesn't tell me anything unless I ask him outright and a long time ago I promised myself that I would never bring up SD or BM unless she was at our house, it has saved alot of arguements. It's like a little weird game that we play, we both pretend that SD doesn't exist until she's actually there. It's working so I guess we'll keep doing it.

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Submitted by halfstepmom2skids on Thu, 10/14/2010 - 5:24pm

I too am pretending they don't exist when sd9 isn't here. Why would be focus on such negativity. It works for us too. SD9 is leaving tomorrow. She destroys stuff every thursday and friday before she goes, so i told DH she has to go to sitters those days until he gets home. I owe not talking to DH bout SD9 to the site, i no longer vent on him.

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Submitted by ThatGirl on Thu, 10/14/2010 - 5:44pm

Doesn't it make you nuts not knowing? If DH knows if she'll be there or not, he should definitely let you know. I can see, tho, that if he has no idea, it's probably best for you to not bring it up.

We started out with 3 SKids coming back and forth every Monday (50/50), but now we're down to just one. For a while I would stress each Monday wondering if the other two would show, but it's been long enough now that they wouldn't dare without some discussion beforehand.

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Submitted by 3bk1sd on Fri, 10/15/2010 - 8:55am

DH usually finds out on friday morning, as far as I know. If it's a weekend sd's supposed to be here I just assume she's coming. If she doesn't it's a bonus and I'm in a great mood all weekend!