So SD(12)hasn't been over for the last 2 weekends but she came this weekend because it was BD(7) birthday party (she likes cake). We invited all the girls in her class and went bowling! It was fun, they are so little yet act so grown up, I love talking to them. Friday night was pretty uneventful as I was working and the true bitch that is SD only comes out when I'm around.
Saturday morning went pretty good as well as we all needed a shower and by the time all 6 of us were dressed and had breakfast it was time to go. SD did dump my expensive shampoo down the drain but I decided that I would ignore that to keep the peace.
We arrived at the bowling alley and DH says to SD "please be good in here." SHe stomped off with a frown on her face. We went in and got started, I put SD(12),BS(11),and BD(2) in their own lane but SD kept throwing ball after ball and wouldn't let the others go. After about the 20th ball I said "hey, SD you only get 3 balls then it's the other persons turn." She knows this as we have bowled quite a bit. Her response to this was to go and sit on the floor across the room. She sat there until the food was served an hour later. During the food and cake she had the biggest scowl on her face. I did manage to keep her out of the pictures!
She grumbled and complained the whole way home and when we got in she called BM and told her she wanted to go home. DH took her home and we resumed our weekend with no gumpy people.
DH tells me that SD told him she has to go home now either on Saturday nights or before 10am on Sundays. She has put her in sunday school, we have one by our house she could go to. Just more PAS and limiting our time with her. I can't say we mind though with the attitude she has.