Hi I'm new to all this and don't know where to turn stumbled across this page on google and thought I would give it a go. I've been with my boyfriend a year and a half and lived with him for about a year (yes we moved quickly) I'm 33 years old no children of my own, he is 38 and has a 13 yr old son and 9 year old daughter. He has them every other week night and every other weekend, so 50% off the time. The daughter is lovely, a bit over bearing but a really nice girl, the son however I cannot stand!