I had to call it quits with my man because SD15 convinced him I am mean to her and the cause of all her problems! I'm so sad right now because I tried to like/love her but she is a Trainwreck! SD15 stole from my family on a vacation, has been arrested twice for drugs and theft, suspended for fighting etc. I told her Dad she is deflecting and needs to quit playing the victim card, but he said he agrees with her. Writing this I see the path forward for me has to be alone, but emotionally I'm devastated! Any advice?

When I have a problem I see many sides to the feelings of the people involved. Maybe it's because I'm female, maybe I'm too sensitive, maybe I fit with the "Empath" label, maybe I think too much, or maybe a combination of all. I have this habit of agonizing over all the possible consequences my decisions will make on the emotions of others.