Hi everyone I'm new here and have a relationship/children question. So very long story. I'm in a relationship with a man who had left his wife but not officially separated via proper procedures. We have been friends for a very long time. It became romantic. His soon to be ex has told his children he cheated. She has given the 9 and 12 year old a complete run down of what he did. And yes he was absolutely wrong. He has gone back a few times because he was guilt ridden about leaving the kids. He was trying to maintain this relationship with me and fix things w his kids.