Where do I begin? Pre wedding( 2010ish) my then boyfriend of one year ex contacted me via social media to tell me she and he have been "engaging" for the past year we had been together.,she said times when he'd pick the daughter up, or drop her off- before/after work, etc. she said she was hurt so we all needed to hurt. I was crushed and vulnerable. Lacking self worth. Long story short I forgave, he "picked me" right? Fast forward nearly TEN years. We've been married 6.5 years now. I just found out that he and her cheated again right after our wedding around 6 years ago.