Ugh where to start. 4 months ago I became full-time SM to a 10yr old SS. I have 2 BioDaughters. 13 and 7 months. Thanks to BioMoM CPS and courts my husband and I (or just I dad works alot) gained full custody to a traumatized weird slow lazy shy fearful incapable incompetent unhealthy lil boy who i have spent the last 5 years of his life Honesty trying to help care for.