I haven't been on in a while.  My mom passed recently and I was her caregiver.  Right now I am greiving my mother, dealing with a sibling who is a narcisisst and I'm stressed out.  I need some major advice.

We have four children.  Our youngest still resides with and is in college.  My youngest stepdaughter is 26, married with 2 children and another on the way.  She has been staying with us off and on for about 2+ years.  So far this is the longest she has stayed with us.