My husband and I have been together for six years, married for two. We are both artists and gig workers, though I also have a full-time job, and he primarily works nights. He has a 15-year-old son from his previous marriage. When my husband and I first got together, the boy was 9, and my husband and his ex-wife were freshly divorced. It was a nasty divorce, too, so I sacrificed my feelings and finances and did everything I could to ensure the child felt comfortable in my home because I knew he must be going through a lot.