So I currently live in the house DH bought with BM. We are remodeling and have some of the furniture. Including the bed. BM hardly slept in it because he bought it around the time that they split. She slept in it maybe several months. Anyway, SS4 said that it's only DH's bed and not mine and his. He also said because his mama use to sleep in it. I know that he is only 4, but kids are smarter than we realize. DH made him apologize to me, but dang that just really upset me.