OK so some advise needed... Quick recap, been married for 3 years DH has 3 kids 2 are bio kids from prev marriage one is his ex wifes from a prev marriage whom he adopted and raised, now 22 y/o. The BM HATES ME and has done all she can to keep the other 2 kids SD 16 and SS 17 from talking to us. Here lately she has even stopped allowing them to come over to our house bc she thinks we are a bad influence... why i dont know???

I swear this college hunt / decision is going to be the death of me. 

It was YSD's weekend this weekend...but this week is her Spring Break, so I'm imagining she'll still be lazing around my house when I get home this afternoon. What sadist put Spring Break the week before taxes are due, anyway? 

So, I get to work today and I see a ping on my phone calendar. I check and it says: 'YSD College Meeting / Tuesday, 7:00 pm' and it was all I could do to keep from hurling my phone against the wall.