Does anyone feel like your the only one that cares what is happening in your Skids life?! Like where is the BM and DH mind at?

Never thought I would have to teach kids how to shower and have proper hygiene. Had to teach SD how to properly wash her hair and that toilet paper needs to be flushed and not thrown in the waste basket.

Never thought I would have to teach them how to utensils to eat instead of their hands and to eat over their plate. (Now eating with their mouth open and eating like a slob is a whole mother chore)