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This is the Twilight Zone....

TwelveLongYrs79's picture

So Sdrama17 has a "boyfriend ".
This "boyfriend" lives THREE HOURS AWAY. He used to go to her school, but moved away with his BD.

She seriously just asked me, "Twelve, Boyfriends birthday is next month. Can his dad come get me and I can go up there for the weekend?"
:O

Yeah, oh sure...

1) Dad nor me have EVER even met this kid.
2) Dad nor me have EVER even met this kids parents
3) you have no job...therefore...
4) you have no money....therefore...
5) you have no car.
6) you are seventeen.

You are out of your f?$&ing mind.

We have told her this "relationship " is completely unrealistic for a girl her age. DF nor I will EVER drive her to see this boy, because this kids not even in the same goddamn county!

She must be completely insane...I'm calling it.

Acratopotes's picture

it's normal lol... girl wants to make out. Her boyfriend moved away, it's his birthday she wants to be with him.

Hope you talked to her about it, like... SD where are you going to get the money for the gas and snacks etc?
I am prepared to pay you for chores you do in the house.....

SD did the father agree to this or are you kids planing your own thing and it will cause drama.

SD can I please get the fathers phone number so we can arrange this properly?

SD I'm not your parent, no need in asking me, I can not say yes or no...

then run all the options past DH, get in touch with this parents, blablablabla SD has to do chores to earn money for this trip, if SD does not comply call the Dad and cancel...

Oh and it's a month away get her on BC immediately Wink

Disneyfan's picture

I don't think there's anything normal about a 17 year old asking her parents if she can spend the weekend with her boyfriend. :sick: :sick:

I think normal kids, that grew up in homes with normal parents and health boundaries know darn well that the answer to that would be HELL NO.