skids live with BM so why does my husband still pay for their cell phone charges
OK....been married nearly 12 months...known and dated husband way before he met the mad ex wife.
kids dont like me or some bullshit so they now live with their mad mother (yay)...but my husband is still paying for their cell phones which they abuse and call constantly.
I am on a pay as you go scenario with my cell and often run out of talk time...no one can call me..I cant call anyone...can be dangerous...
Just wondering if im being a little over the top jealous with such a thing...or do I have justifieble reason to be concerned.....I dont have a job right now...but the day I do...OMG things will be different...
I just see his kids revolting behaviour being rewarded time and time again....through his gutless fathering skills. Cos she wore the pants in that previous marriage he goes along with wot she decides still...im sure of it...
How do we change this sort of compilation of contentment that exists in the revolting previous relationships
This is tough. My SO got
This is tough. My SO got skids cell phones and they live with BM. He wanted to be able to talk to them anytime and they can call him as well. It was really irritating because after that BM put HER skids on her cell phone plan (how convenient) and got rid of their home phone. I am angry that his getting cells phones lead to her paying for her skids. lets not forget that she still gets CS too. Add the fact that she takes the cell phones as punishment (the ones she doesn't pay for - doesn't have a home phone for them to use to talk to their dad), so skids don't call him when they don't have their phones. we both get pissed.
Honestly though, I think this sounds like more than cell phones. Sounds like he still does for them and they act any way they want to. Spoiled?
how do they abuse the phone? Do they go over their minutes?
He has them on his 'family'
He has them on his 'family' plan....Im not....neither are any of my kids and he me and my kids all live in the same house under the same roof....
They abuse the phones because they are only allowed a certain amount of minutes which is significant...yes they go over them. They get on the internet with them and download stuff that costs extra and the internet costs too. They obviously think that they have unlimited access to calling their father and when he doesnt ansa they just keep calling and calling and calling and texting and texting to the point where its very difficult to have a conversation with my Husband when he gets home from work....cos they are demanding his attention. If he doesnt ansa the cell, they then call the house phone...so every day this weekend at 730am our home phone rang as husband left cell on silent down stairs.
Its got to the point where I blew up demanding he not be so rude as to ansa the phone whilst we are up the table having dinner....my kids are not allowed to take calls/play mobiles/psp or what ever during dinner...so I expect he could at least give me some respect...especially considering I just cooked a very difficult meal for us all to enjoy....
I cant help but feel these phone calls are a harressment measure conjured up by the BM as a way to annoy us.....I wuld expect a grown man to also consider this may be why his kids are excessively calling....
I dont know...I just feel she gets the CS and yet she still expect us to pay for her rotton rude BS extravagences...yes spoiled and obviously not being taught phone manners....