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My Husaband Ended Our Marriage Last Night

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Submitted by WhereDidIPutMyBroom on Tue, 12/20/2011 - 11:54am

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My husband ended our marriage last night. After 5 years of drama 2 months of being separated, a cancer scare that I endured all alone, and endless arguments, I can honestly say that I am at peace with it. I hope that this helps everyone here...

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will..You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time..You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken..You'll fight with your best friend..You'll blame a new love for things an old one did..You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love..So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt.. Because every sixty seconds you spend upset, is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Not looking Back,

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Submitted by dispiritedstepm... on Tue, 12/20/2011 - 1:18pm

i want to say sorry u are going thru this, but from what u stated, u are at peace, so i will say congradulations on earning your life back.

when a door closes, another opens. i pray u keep this strength and are able to fully move on ((HUGS))

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Submitted by TinyDancer on Tue, 12/20/2011 - 2:06pm

Sounds like your a good place now, best way to start your new year, new life... All that energy goes into YOU now.
Here's to your new drama free life! Cheers!

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Submitted by my5sons on Thu, 12/22/2011 - 10:49am

I'm new here and have read through dozens of the posts but haven't responded until reading your's. I'm afraid this is where DH and I are headed. It makes me sooo very sad to finally say it "out loud". I'm already, in my head, working things out for a life without him. I'm sorry for what you're going through but know you aren't alone! ((Hugs))

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Submitted by buterfly_2011 on Wed, 12/28/2011 - 10:45am

I'm new here too, and have read many posts..... and I am sad to say that I too realize this is where we are headed. Saying it outloud is hard. I sat in bed last night for hours trying to figure out what to say to him, how to say it without sounding like a selfish woman. I feel guilty for being so angry at him and his daughter. But I also can see that he will never lay the law down. And I will always have this drama of her running my life or making all the choices for everyone in our family simply because he can't stand up to her, or her mom. We will never have enough money to get out of our apartment, once again because he cant stand up to her or her mom. He won't ever "live" with me when the kids come to visit so the daughter won't be angry. And we won't ever be married simply because we have been engaged for a year and it's still a dirty secret.... I wish he had never asked me. Then maybe I wouldn't feel so much anger. Got a dress, his ring, the perfect shoes the perfect flower for my hair... BUT as I have come to realize nothing about this hostile situation is perfect and nor will it ever be. Finding the strength to let him go is something that is going to be hard to do. I will have to dig very deep.
I hope one day I can get on here and say I am at peace with it. Right now i'm not. And I am heartbroken. And I feel used.........