The moment she walks in...
Her High B***hness decided that she couldn't wait until tomorrow to get her stuff. DH gets a text from her that she is having a friend bring her out.
From the moment the girl walks in the door, she acts like she is queen sh*t! In the first 5 minutes, DH is ready to smack her!! Seriously...she is acting all smug even more like we are beneath her! I can feel all the tension in every muscle, as I think to myself, "Hurry up...get your sh*t...and get the hell out of my house!" DH came out and tells me, "I'm this close to tells by her to take it all and don't bother coming back!" I tell him I've felt that way since all this started, so maybe he should tell her that! He claims he can't, and walks off back to supervise her packing.
I hope he is really seeing right now that this is all her, and is not as much BM as he thinks. She is being a total b***h to him. The girl really needs to hurry up and leave, so I can go back to my peace!
Favorite BS line from
Favorite BS line from tonight...
DH: "She is stuck between manipulation and trying to please everyone."
No, she IS manipulating to please herself!
Her High B***hness finally left. On her way out she tried to say bye to me...I ignored her!
These guilty dads are always
These guilty dads are always blaming all the behavior on the BMs and not holding the kids responsible for their behavior. They are not completely innocent.
Her moving out is a great New Year's present.
Glad she got her crap. I
Glad she got her crap. I would have stood vigil with DH for the 2 minutes that I allowed her to be in my home. Esp if her friend came in as well. Hurry up and get the hell out. What a piece of work she is! I hope she can't get onto Guard at the new school lol! She doesn't deserve to be the center of attention in any way.
~ Moon
The friend she was with was
The friend she was with was the emo friend that I found out was into girls...the same girl Her High B***hness went that homecoming dance with. I had suspected that SD was in a relationship with her at one point...wouldn't be surprised if that has been rekindled!
I'm so hoping the girl doesn't make guard! Would be funny to see her try to crawl back to our house to try to regain her spot here! Nope...not happening! Would be awesome to see her knocked down a few notches!
I hope karma takes a HUGE
I hope karma takes a HUGE bite out of her butt.
Why? Why did they let her try
Why? Why did they let her try out and pick her for varsity? I know one thing...DH is going to performances by himself! Yes, you can bet Her High B***hness will let him know when performances are, even if she doesn't try to see him or call him. She has to be the focus of attention at all times!
Oh, and get this. Her High B***hness told BM that DH said he would buy all of her guard stuff! We found this out when BM called to ask him about it. DH hasn't even talked to HHB outside of her coming to get her stuff, and the 5 second call she made to DH to make sure he knew she made guard at the new school! I was there for both calls...the buying of guard stuff never discussed! DH was quick to correct BM in that he said no such thing to HHB, and that her guard stuff should come out of the child support (especially since BM offered no financial help for anything the last two years)!! And it starts...BM and HHB thinking the can ask for all kinds of crap above and beyond the child support! Nope, especially the way HHB is treating us! She still has yet to respond to any texts from my MIL! She is totally giving her grandmother the cold shoulder! I heard everything MIL said about the whole sneaking out thing, and nothing warranted the hate HHB is showing her! All she said was how could HHB do that to her...they were MIL's friends...that she was embarrassed and felt like she (MIL) had to apologize for HHB's behavior. But the was HHB is portraying it to BM, we ALL made her feel worthless and she wants nothing to do with us. Really?!
HHB made Guard in the middle
HHB made Guard in the middle of the year? I guess it's a separate tryout. Ugh! You tell that DH of yours to stand firm and NOT give in to her ways. You had that child for two years with no help from BM. BM is going to need more than money for this ride! I wonder how HHB's StepDad feels about all of this? Is he the type t lay down the law in his home, too? Keep us posted!
~ Moon
They had open tryouts for
They had open tryouts for winter guard today, so mid-year tryouts aren't new. I'm just shocked they allowed her to try out before she is actually enrolled in the school!
You are right...BM will need more than money. Of course, I don't think the girl has stayed at home since she moved back! I've been looking at phone records to see how often DH has been trying to call her, as I've been trying to get him to back off and let her come to him. I notice that there are a lot of incoming calls from BM. Knowing that BM never leaves the house, either HHB hasn't been at home, or BM is that lazy that she has to call HHB when they are in the same house. As much as I believe BM is that lazy, I think it is more likely that HHB hasn't even been at home...that she has been staying at whatever friend whenever!
And it looks like the guy she snuck out to meet is no longer grounded (he is 17 if I recall). His number started showing up a lot again starting yesterday.
Yup...BM has her hands full...and I'm afraid stepdad may just be sitting back enjoying a beer! Hope they enjoy being grandparents! Girl isn't coming back to this house!
Oh, I wish! DH won't let me
Oh, I wish! DH won't let me go that far, yet. If HHB keeps up the way she is, he may actually agree to it at some point! Her High B***hness is definitely a better name for her! She has been a total b***h to everyone since all this started!
UGH! DH and my MIL are still
UGH! DH and my MIL are still basically begging HHB to talk to them! I wish they could just give it up! Posting cutesy things on her Facebook (don't they realize, Facebook is really just a front...she does everything on Instagram). DH has tried to call the girl multiple times today, and every time, you can see she immediately checks her voice mail, meaning she is purposely sending DH's calls there! I'm sure the girl is eating this up!