Anyone ever hear from Cantkeepdoingthis?
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Has anyone ever heard from Cantkeepdoingthis who had HHB as her stepdaughter? The last she had posted was that she was living with her mother again and going to a different school. Due to the drama she created, she was not able to join colorguard once again.
She is doing great, just got
She is doing great, just got tired of the drama that crops up on this site.
She divorced her spineless, delusional H and has moved on to much better things.
Hello!!!! Yes, I'm still
Hello!!!! Yes, I'm still alive, and HHB is no longer my problem, as I ended up divorcing her father! Yup, you read that right...we aren't even together any more after some 15 years! And crazy enough, it wasn't even HHB that was the final straw....he cheated on me with a girl he used to know in high school...AND, they got married before the ink even dried on the divorce papers!!!!
So now I'm living a kid-free life, as BS is now on his own, as well. Life is good...couldn't be better!
I have heard murmurs from the HHB front, as BD still follows her on Twitter and Snapchat to spy on her little sister. Girl is going through one boyfriend after another, and is hoping to graduate this year so she can "start her own life"...whatever that means, because she has never worked, and really hasn't put much effort in school. How she is even slated to graduate is beyond me! I can only guess that she has gotten a lot of credit by computer. Of course, she has still been denied a place on the colorguard...never made it back on any squad. But again...NOT MY PROBLEM ANY MORE!!! It is so liberating!
OMG yesssssss!!! I have been
OMG yesssssss!!!
I have been here for quite a while under other names. Yoy always were one of my heroes!!
Glad you got out, but the circumstances suck. Separated here myself after several rounds of cheating on his part.
Cant not you as well....
:jawdrop: Cant not you as well.... TGHIB did the same thing as you - same situation as well.
I was wondering how you are, and I also wonder about Moon......
the ladies that helped me through step hell all are single again?
Oh I use to be Sally lol... got the boot a while back but I returned to ST...
"Jawdropping! Cant not you as
"Jawdropping! Cant not you as well.... TGHIB did the same thing as you - same situation as well.
I was wondering how you are, and I also wonder about Moon......
the ladies that helped me through step hell all are single again?
Oh I use to be Sally lol... got the boot a while back but I returned to ST..."
It was all for the better...he really did me a favor! I started dating again, and have been with an amazing guy for several months now. And guess what? My age...never married...no kids...doesn't want kids! He doesn't have any issues with me having adult kids. This guy is definitely an upgrade! He really has his stuff together...college degree, good job, financially responsible...so many things that my ex wasn't! I got he house in the divorce, and promptly sold it...moved into a cozy little apartment just me and my two fur-babies (my momma cat passed soon after the separation). I'm doing all kinds of stuff that I love to do...I've been to more concerts this year than in the last 10 years of my life, and I still have at least two more on the books! This weekend, my guy and I are going to see Formula 1. I now spend about 5-6 hours a week in the dance studio, and have my first performance next month. I finally feel like I'm living my life, and not just sitting at home being drained by someone who isn't going anywhere in life! Every weekend, my guy and I are out doing something.
Not to mention, I am out of the whole HHB thing! So thankful there! Had we not divorced because of his cheating, I'm certain that girl would have pushed me into it anyway! I only see things with her getting way worse when she turns 18 in March! Guess that is the new step-mommy's problem!! And that woman deserves what is coming to her, considering she knew my ex was married, and still pursued him!
so glad you came back and
so glad you came back and give an update.....
hehehehe your dancing troop might take SD in for all you know, she was a dancer as well competing with you wasn't she lol......
LOL...oh yes...HHB thought
LOL...oh yes...HHB thought she was quite the dancer, and was mad because I was taking a class and dear daddy wouldn't put her in a dance school, because she wouldn't keep her grades up or eat right (you know...the whole purging thing that my ex is probably STILL denying).
Oh...and on that...right after we separated, because HHB had to stay on my insurance until the end of the year, since the divorce wouldn't be final until January, my ex called me for information because HHB "might have appendicitis". Turned out it was an ovarian cyst...and wouldn't you know it...ovarian cysts are caused by...dun dun dun...EATING DISORDERS!
Good thing is, I don't think that HHB would be able to to afford to take classes at my studio. If she does find a way, I guess I'll just have to show her.
She probably would have something to say if she found out I started doing Contemporary...you know...her style.
WTH - you divorce and you are
WTH - you divorce and you are still responsible for her medical? I will not do it, I will find a way to get her off, I mean it's not like she's your brat lol.....
If Ex ever called me with news of his brat - I would simply say eff you not my problem.... ask your new wife you idiot..
I hope by this time you have blocked Ex and HHB from contacting you.....
It was only until the end of
It was only until the end of last year. We separated in November, and had to wait 60 days before we could finalize the divorce after filing. The only way I could drop her and my ex outside of enrollment was to have a finalized divorce. So, I just dropped them in enrollment, so they were off my insurance as of the 1st of this year, and the divorce was finals shortly after. But she had her little episode beginning of December, so she was still on it at the time.
And yes...my I have my ex blocked on my phone. Since the divorce, I only talked to him once, and that was to have him sign some papers for the house because his name was still on the mortgage, but I promptly put him back on block. A friend of mine works with him (she helped him get his job at my request when he was laid off 3 years ago), and says he came to her wondering how I could just not talk to him after we were together 15 years. Um...we have no minor children together (he adopted mine, but they are adults, and he doesn't need me to play go-between...if they don't want to talk to him, that is their right), and there is no other reason to talk. I don't stay friends with my ex's!
He was wondering how you do
He was wondering how you do not want to talk to him after being together for 15 years.....
Hope your friend replied cause you tripped and fell with your weiner into another woman you idiot...
Well I'm glad you are rid of them, I only have 1.5 years to go with Aergia before she's out of the house.. whoop hoo, I still make her life miserable, I still play the game piss of a skid and it's getting to be fun now, she hides away in her room lol.....I still live on my own.....
Hi Cant!!! Very glad to hear
Hi Cant!!! Very glad to hear you're doing so well!! FYI, I never thought your exH was good enough for you. xoxo
Every time some one says Cant
Every time some one says Cant - I read something totally different }:)
I bet he still expects to
I bet he still expects to hear from you as he assumes he has some kind of hold over you even though he's married to someone else. He wants a backup plan!
My friend and I have joked
My friend and I have joked about that! We know he stalks my Facebook page, because he has tried to interject in my friend's conversations with other co-workers at work. Like one day she was talking about her FitBit, and that she was thinking about getting the upgraded version. My ex was walking by and chimed in with, "You could get an Apple Watch, and you can get a pink one and be all matchy." Only way he would have known that I had purchased a pink Apple Watch would be if he stalked my Facebook page! Since I know he stalks, I purposely post certain things...like all the fun things my guy and I are doing. I know it makes him pout, because I was basically bankrolling our lives when we were together. Now, I'm doing all this stuff, and he can't even afford to go to a movie because of all the debt he put himself in over the years!