There is hope
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Well, SS23 moved away 6 months ago. Of course he needed some assistance and was coming back a lot on weekends which was driving me nuts. He is finally starting to get it. Its been such a tough road with him for the last 7 years but he is actually growing up and has held a job for the entire time he has been away. My fingers are crossed that he keeps it up as i am finally able to start letting go of my resentment from his past issues. I won't ever forget them but its getting easier.
Well, that's good!
Well, that's good!
I have no hope for my SS19, but I don't really have to deal with him much. Thank god he wants to be BM's partner and doesn't come around much.
Course we are in counselling
Course we are in counselling for how I was so disengaged to him and unsupportive of my wfie. Disengagement is a dangerous tool. but is necessary lots of times. It has to be played right with all the consequences thought about before hand. He is doing well which I happy for. Its all the past resentment that is hard to deal with.