New to the group with a 15 y.o SD from hell

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My 15 y.o SD i cannot even begin to describe....i never thought in a million years id ever feel this way about a kid....especially one i used to consider my own.From the age this child could almost walk,she has been.a problem......Now.that she.is a teenager......the manipulative,nasty,disrespectful way she treats her mother and i is un believable........but in the same time,turn around and ask.for something.......stealing money,cellphones,etc.....sorry to ramble on....i just dont know where to start.......any other guys have this problem?

Oh, yes do I have this

Oh, yes do I have this problem---except this started when SD turned 10! We had a pretty good relationship for 5 yrs and suddenly she became a teenager at age 10. Be glad your SD is closer to 18 than mine

My DW and i had this convo

My DW and i had this convo earlier....i said there is no way she is going to be here at 18.....im seriously at my wits end

I had a similar conversation

I had a similar conversation with my DW about a month earlier. The way things are shapping up, my SS is on the fast track to flunking high school and "Fast food Hair-net city". If that happens, I want him out of the house when he turns 18. There is no way I am supporting ANYONE who doesn't do anything around the house and just puts in the bare minimum of effort in his studies. Now my SS doesn't steal, hardly talks back, etc. but he is showing signs of rebellion and he has even stated flat out to me that "whatever you guys can't give me, I'll just get from my Dad". It's like this kid has already made his life game plan; play Mom and Dad against the middle and milk it for all it's worth!

My DH sure did. Then he

My DH sure did.

Then he turned into a father instead of 'daddddddiiiiii'. Feel free to read my blog for ideas of what he has done to turn the kids around. Of course, your going to have to get your DW on board to initiate operation 'pull skids head out of a$$'.

Hi, I'm new to the group as

Hi, I'm new to the group as well. I have two SD's....15 and 16. I am currently experiencing the a very difficult situation as well. The 15 year old was recently busted for DRINKING at school, as well as plans to BUY WEED from another child.
Both SD's are master manipulators, sneaky, disrespectful and hateful. They have pushed things so far that my mother, who has always thought of them as her biological grans now wants nothing to do with them.
Their Father, My fiance, allows them WAY more room than he should, and it's creating a huge problem. The 16 year old has HORRIBLE grades, he does nothing to try and change that. His thought is that I am always the one to blame and allows them to get away with murder.
I am at a loss. It's becoming so difficult that I am very close to calling off the wedding and leaving.