Ok I feel awful even typing any of this but I need some advice. It has all come down to this and my support system at this point is running low. I have a stepson......I believe he is autistic, however his bio. Mom refuses to even consider this could be possible. I've been in the medical field for 6 years and if he's not autistic, then he's for sure got se other issues. Even my husband and his family all agree with me on this. I love him dearly but #1 I have NO idea how to deal with an autistic stepchild. #2 the kid drives me crazy! #3 we can't do ANYTHING without him crying all the time. (when I say crying I mean HUGE tantrums for NO reason). Any advice?