I'm sorry but I'd move the fuck out if he insists on bringing his son around. Seriously. You're not married, you don't have kids together. End this now before your daughter becomes more of a victim than she already is...I don't mean to be a bitch but this is serious shit.

Bottom line, I would have ended the relationship with my BF the minute I found out what his kid did to my daughter.

He doesn't respect you or your kid.

Dump his dumb ass. Kick him out of your home. Call the police if the skid shows up.

End of story.

Why in the world would YOU continue to traumatize your daughter this way. This has nothing to do with your BF and everything to do with how you're dealing with it.

SS is a monster. He may have graduated to drugs at this point, who knows. This would be a deal breaker for me. I wouldn't even want to date this monster's dad anymore. this kid learned his perversions from someone, not necessarily BF, but perhaps a relative? Who knows.

Here's what's most concerning: your BF is not looking out for your interests: the safety of your daughter. The fact that he sees no problem letting his son around your daughter is a huge red flag for me.

You and your daughter deserve better, I would recommend staying away from this entire family. I know this is not a decision to take lightly. But this man is not worth compromising your daughter's safety. You can do better.

Sorry about the harsh words, this is not your fault. even though I don't have my own kids, I have a mama bear instinct that comes out in situations like this.

You are not overreacting. You are not in the wrong. In no way should he feel justified in trying to force his son upon your home when your daughter is present. It goes against your comfort as a mother and puts your daughter at risk for further exposure to inappropriate behaviors. You are being extremely fair and accommodating just by remaining in the relationship at all. You are going above and beyond what most would do by allowing him in your home on the off weeks. Your BF is not being respectful at all. You have every right to demand the arrangements to stay as they have been in order to ensure your daughter's safety.

"I don't need to hear that my daughter safety is more important than my boyfriend I already know that"

You know....I'm am going to say it....

You care more about your BF than you do your kid. You're still letting him live in your home after his son presented a very real danger to your kid.

You are the one that needs a dose of reality and I'm willing to bet your friends and family have told you the same thing. Which is why you had the "I don't want to hear it" disclaimer.

It's time you wised up and realized the real problem is your relationship, not the skid.

I'm going to be blunt here. You are a fool to allow this monster in your home EVER. Doesn't matter whether you daughter is present of not.

And you should be deeply ashamed of yourself for not getting the authorities involved. You don't care what these monsters do to another young girl? This kid should be imprisoned.

Hope that boyfriend is worth selling your soul for.

It makes me sick when I hear on the news about some stupid woman who puts having a boyfriend over her children's basic safety.

Take your kids and run. Tell BF that if he wants his son around then he needs to find a new place to live. PERIOD. Your daughter might not be safe the next time around and what if you aren't home when this happens?

I realize this might sound harsh. Get out of there. The situation with your ss is not normal. You will have to watch him the rest of your life together.

Think of it this way: If a male friend of you or your BF's ever pulled that on your daughter, the relationship would be over. kaput, never to be heard from again. He cannot be trusted with your daughter. He crossed a line.

In the meantime, there are very nice hotels with pools, movie theaters and restaurants near by. It sounds like a very nice mother/daughter weekend together is in order.