New to forum, but needed some unbiased opinions.
I know my family would not welcome my husband if I asked their opinion.

Some background; Im married almost 6 years, My girls 17 and 15 live with us.
HIs kids 20,19, and 13. The youngest has every other week visition.

There are several issues but I want to hit on one. My husband is an alcoholic, he is aware of it.
Recently he has said he would quit and that lasted one day. Now he said he would try to go every other day and slowly stop. The problem is when he drinks alot he is very negative towards me and my girls.
The one topic that ends up causing huge arguments is my girls. He says they are spoiled and lazy.
The only thing I pay for that is considered extra is their cell phone bill. Financially things are tight.
They worked this summer and payed for their own school clothes. They both make all a's the occasional b.
They are in other school activities, one is a cheerleader the other a bball player.
As far as lazy, they are given chores, but this last week was finals week so I wasn't as strict about them
getting them done. Typically if they don't do a chore they double up the following day.

In the last two months I have heard from my husband that he is tired of supporting them and they are spoiled and lazy.
My girls BD doesn't send money but we are still in the process of going to court. He is behind around 45k.

Apparently he has strong feelings about that since it always comes up. I feel like leaving, that if we are such a burden on him why make my girls hear this?
The next day when he is sober he always apologizes and says oh I was drunk, but I feel with the amount of times it comes out it has to be true.
I work so it isn't like he is the sole provider, his business actually isn't doing that great right now.
I am currently looking for another job, mainly because he keeps throwing in my face that he is supporting them.

I guess Im writing this more to vent, I am at a loss for what to do. Any advice is appreciated.