:sick: Okay, I just can't take it anymore, I can't believe there is a forum for this, thank the Lord~here goes. I have basically raised my dysfuntional SD since she was 12. Her mother was never in her life until recently after SD had a baby. Anyway, I have always felt as though this girl only loved me for what I could do for her and when she didn't like what I had to say or do she could turn that love off quick as a light switch. She is disrespectful, rude, immature and a plain B#@^h. My DH has NEVER tried to talk to her about her treatment of me, he has always said that it was between us and we needed to work it out. WHAT???? Okay, so this is 14 yrs now, she is 26, she came over the other night with her baby, barely spoke to me unless neccessary, her father, my DH decided out of nowhere to tell her he was going to keep her baby in a couple of weeks for the weekend to give her a break. First of all, I have a 3 yr old DS whom I was told i would never have, my DH has NEVER CHANGED HIS PAMPER, NEVER FED HIM, NEVER ROCKED HIM TO SLEEP, NEVER BATHED HIM, you get the picture. What in the world makes him think he will take care of a 9 month baby now??? Just because it's his GS he's special or something, no I will be the one to feed, bathe, change, rock basically take care of that baby, it's not the babies fault I know but I can't find it in my heart to have feelings for him because of her hatred for me. Well, she got really ticked when I laughed and said "you won't take care of her, I will and I'm not going to" Under SD breathe I heard her (conviently loud enough for me to hear) say "my baby will NEVER stay in this house." Now I not only pissed but offended. Yes I made the comment I'm not watching the baby but I'm not heartless either, if the baby was here and needed changed of course I would change him, play with him, I wouldn't neglect him, she took what I said wrong, I was talking to my DH not her when I laughed. I sent her a text explaining that I meant no harm and I would never let her baby go unattended, she then proceeded to send me a text back that said and I quote: "I will not bother you anymore, I can no longer handle this relationship mentally and I hope you will do the same, good night and good bye" WHAT????? I'm so sick of both of them honestly, my SD and my DH, they are two peas in a pod and if I wasn't on SSDI, have to stay home due to my medication and didn't have a 1990 car that won't make it half way down the street without overheating I would be out of here but unfortunately that is not the case, so, I have blocked her number from my cell phone, told my DH that she is NEVER allowed in my house again and I will also be keeping my DS from seeing her, I feel it the best since she does smoke weed at her house, listen to music with foul language while the kids are present and her boyfriend sits and plays violent, bloody video games, my DH will totally ignore all of it and just let my son run around their house willy nilly, NO WAY. Do I have that right??? Please someone I am losing my mind!!!!