Unfortunately, I have been the full time step parent in charge of their care for all 3. They resent me because their evil mother has done everything possible to cause hate towards me. When I married their father 6 years ago, the kids(girls) all wanted to live with him. They were 12,15,17. They only wanted to live with dad so they could get away with more since he is a non-existent parent never home. They thought they could get away with murder but I have already raised two successful children and could read their antics a mile away. They hated me and they appreciated me because I was the one to make sure all school stuff was done. Got them Drs appts, hygiene products, listened to them. So much more, including knowing immediately the youngest daughter wasn't a mean kid, but a child who was Aspbergers. All her school records stated this BUT the parents refused to acknowledge it. I forced them to except it and we started getting her the correct help. Truly in today's light, CPS should have been called.

So, now for the eldest story currently. She moved out 5 years ago. Decided to move back in our home. I was never asked once about it. Dad, always wanting to be the favorite, said yes. When I asked, he said it's only for a few weeks until she can find a new apt. It's been a year now. I WANT HER GONE!!! These girls are spoiled brats. No apt. was ever good enough. Although my husband and their mother has no problem letting the Aspbergers adult child live in the projects with no monetary support except the govt. and what her poor grandmother gives her.

The one living with us is rude, disrespectful and is worthless in offering help. A matter of fact if I ask her to do something she purposely ignores me. Very stubborn. Like her Dad. Her Dad/my husband has picked her over me even when I say "It's her or me". He says she can leave whenever she wants to. She has a full time job with benefits, car paid off, student loans paid off and should be just fine financially. When Hubby and I are "just us", everything is perfect. When I walk in my house now, all I feel is negative energy. HELP, please.