Hi everyone. You know, I realized something; since I joined this forum, I have made a huge mistake. I would read others posts and would join in and complain and say how horrible my SD is. I thought about this today. When I was responding to others posts, I should be offering advice and support for that posters situation. I should not be using it as a platform to complain about how rotten my SD is. When I realized this I felt like an idiot. I'm just bursting at the seams to share what a horrible person SD is but I realized it's not appropriate to jump into another's persons post and start complaining about how much I can't stand my spoiled, entitled SD. I want to apologize to all of you whose posts I've managed/attempted to hijack. I would like to work on being more supportive of others, posting responses that are geared toward giving support and advice as opposed to complaining about what a truly rotten and horrible person my SD is. I think I've really misused these boards. I want to be more supportive of others and post my own issues in the form of new threads rather than complaining on someone else's thread, "piggy backing" on others posts in regards to how truly awful my SD is (and she is awful, OMG). The thing of it is; I am so disgusted by her behavior and I am even more disgusted by how my DH used to defend and makes excuses for her. I couldn't even say the first syllable of her name without DH running to his precious little princess snowflakes defense. He would attack me verbally if I so much as moved my head/eyes in a way that he interpreted as being negative to the rotten brat. Of course he never defended me when the little bitch was calling me names and accusing me of horrible things. Thank goodness this stopped but I was the scapegoat for this little moron for years. I'm surprised we survived this. She is so incredibly evil that I just can't stop complaining about her. My DH has been an idiot when it comes to his little princess. Little psycho princess brat finally showed her true colors last year when she told daddy that she will never speak to him or see him again until he divorces me. Good riddance you spoiled brat; it isn't going to happen. Why don't you go visit fantasyland and keep your little dreams/fantasies to yourself. Daddy finally stood up to her. I am proud of DH for telling this 30 year old rotten brat that he will stand by me but I still have a lot of unresolved anger towards her for the years I had to spend kissing her sick ass and catering to her every whim because daddy felt guilty because princesses mommy and daddy got a divorce. Grow up you rotten spoiled brat; get over it. I resent her so very much. Ok, I'm done. My main message is that I want to thank you all for listening to me, providing me with amazing advice and being so supportive. You all are an amazing group of people. Thank you again for all you do.