SD and H haven't spoken since her meltdown back in December where she screamed at H saying that he is not to call her his daughter anymore and she hates him all because he was trying to get her on track to doing something with her life rather than being a 22 year old who never got her high school diploma and works at a conveience store and spends her free time smoking pot and playing video games. She had a screaming fit at 1AM and immediately called her mother which is her go to any time something goes wrong and BM called her an Uber to wherever and she left at 2AM when she was supposed to get on a plane with us later that day for a trip to Disney. Had to get on the phone an cancel her flight, cancel her portion of the room (luckily we got refunded). H was upset and sad abotu it first but got over it quickly. I told him 8 months prior when he planned this trip and then thought SD should come with us that it was going to be a disaster. He assured me that they'd keep things light and it would be fine. How right I was! If she would have gone, it would have been a nightmare. She'd mope about saying she didn't want to do all the walkign around Disney which would prompt H to get upset with her. She doesn't like to go on rides and would have been upset about that. No doubt if she had come whe would have been on the phone with her mother telling her how we didn't care about her and to get her a flight home.

After the whole scene, that weekend she first unfriend both of us which she does with all her friends and fter ftght and then a couple days later took down her Facebook account, no doubt so we wouldn't contact her that way. She left in such a rush that she left a bunch of stuff--her teddy bear, her dress, which was really her Mom's but she said it was hers, a jack to a game, her makeup. BM contacte me, not H, to ask me to send back her stuff which I didn't do because it's not my problem. H told me to ignore the request. A month later she once again texted me and H this time and said to please send back the bear as SD has had it since she was 2 and she didn't care about the other stuff. H told me to block her number, which I did, and he didn't respond. All the stuff is sitting in our closet. I can imagine H loves it because BM screwed him out of a bunch of his stuff by just giving it away when he was at work one day.

I am over the moon about the whole thing. I shouldn't be, but I am. Not having to deal with wondering if SD and her lazy, hippie boyfriend are going to come up for a visit. No more of H telling me that SD needs to move up here for a fresh start which drove me nuts because you KNOW she would have been living with us even though H said that we'd get her her own apartment and he'd find her a job. She almost bit on it one time and I thought for sure she'd be moving her, but thank god no! No more calling H at midnight because she's having a problem and H's response every time wasn't to help her get over it it it was "You should come up here to decompress" which irritated me so much. Never asking me if it was okay for her to come, just assuming it was fine because he told me that she's welcome to come here any time. Life is just calmer and I love it!