Okay, so what do I say, how do I act... Friday I posted I am new here.... SS28 left angry because I said bottle of wine he asked to take was $10.. DH didn't speak to me all day Saturday... Really didn't think SS would be back over so soon, but he's here! I am not sure how to act..... I am reading a book about narcissistic behavior which I think fits his pattern.... I found book whiling looking at some other recommendations here. Why is it Always about You? Hope it helps me understand and learn how to communicate. I am not surprised these behaviors exist .... I wonder what he needs? Trying to be cool.