I'm so confused! Over 2 years ago my boyfriends daughter has moved in with us. Her BM could not handle her because she was mouthing off to her.
I have been helping my boyfriend with her for a while now, he would drop her off at school I would pick her up later. Since she is a lazy teen girl (17) I would make her lunch and serve her, later I would make dinner for all of us.
Last week she was going to some event and wanted to get her nails done. She selected a nail salon over 3.5 miles away from home because it had great reviews online.
Her father took her to the salon near our house, where I go sometimes.
Teen girl got very upset that she was not driving to the nail salon of her choice, she was determent to hate the outcome of her nail job regardless if they did a good job or bad.
Later his daughter was crying to both mom and dad that her nails were ruined!!!
AND of course it was my fault because I refuse to drive her 3.5 miles! Out of the blue this problem became mine!!!
She started to mouth off to me, later she apologized in a cheesy letter.

All this time I had a strange feeling that something was wrong! I secretly checked text messages from the ex wife and BINGO!
BM is trashing me out big time, calling me names and accusing me of trying to ruin the father daughter relationship.
I was very hurt reading it!
I confronted my BF of 6 years and he was trying to sugar coat the whole thing.
What should I do? I cant believe both of them are so nice to my face, behind my back little girl is trashing me out to whoever wants to listen.
Is that my thank yous?