I have an SD19 who is a pain in my ass. She's away at college FFS, and she is still a royal pain in my ass. I have not seen her since she left for spring semester at the end of January. She came home for part of spring break a few weeks ago and I checked myself into a motel for 3 nights. I took one for the team that weekend.

I have found that just this week, with Easter approaching, that I don't care to EVER see her again. I haven't told DH yet, but I'm not going to his SIL's tomorrow for our annual Easter visit. He is not taking my car to drive SD13 and to pick up bitch SD19 from college in. I am going to lie to my husband to save my sanity. I am going to tell him that I am going to see my parents at a relative's house tomorrow, haven't seen anyone in a long time. Then I am going to just stay home, and later when he asks I will tell him I changed my mind.

I can't be around SD19. I am making plans on leaving this summer when she is here in this home. I do not want to be around her because she is an annoying POS enabled bitch. DH stands by and does nothing. NOTHING.

How old is your SS? I thought I would never use the word hate, but I have just come to find that SD19 is not worth it to me. Not worth it at all. I get nothing from her or YSD13. NOTHING. They are idiots and so is DH for letting them drink the Kool-Aid.

Ugh, I feel your pain. I'm so sorry your SS took all of that money. So sorry. That's a lot to deal with.

~ Moon

Some adult kids are perfect motivation for post birth abortion. Too bad the old stance of "I brought you into this world and I can take you out" does not apply for parents of adult idiot children.

In many cases it would do the planet a favor if parents could just eliminate their idiot children when those children prove as adults that they are worthless POS morons.

The more I read, the more I want to get my running shoes on and run like hell!! I admit it! I am too selfish to put up with skids. I am wore out from my own!! No man is worth it! The older they get the bigger the dramma. I haven't even had to deal with most of the shit all of you have (yet) and I don't think I want to. I am new to this site and glad I found it! I am glad to know that I am not a monster for hating my skids,( I don't really hate them, I just never want to have to see or talk to them ever again.)that many other people feel the same. I have carried this guilt for the last 4 years feeling like a terrible person for how I feel. I really think I should just get the hell out before it gets harder to leave.

Sadly he is blind to his kids and thinks they are wonderfull. He just can not understand why I don't like them. He is constantly trying bring us together in hopes we will all be one big happy family.

Yep, they are all blind to their kids' faults. When my DH used to talk about his kids, he'd always have to end every conversation with "in his defense" or "in her defense". I finally asked him to quit talking about them because I didn't give a shit. At 25 and 26, they both live with their mother. One has a part time job, the other has a baby and her goal in life is to get on disability (has been turned down twice). They both make me want to puke. And it's not just that they're lazy; it's that they are manipulative, uncaring, rude, insensitive, and just crappy people. Had I known then what I know now....