The dreaded father's day is fast approaching. I have for the first time after 15 years told DH that I will not be involved at all with his three adult skids on father's day. We have two son's together who have never had a father's day alone as a Separate family without the over indulged, jealous , mean spirited skids who have never accepted me or our boys. Our boys need to identify with their father separately without them, I advised DH that he is to ensure that he is invited over to one of the skids places or meet elsewhere.
I honestly don't care at all and find myself becoming increasingly angry at the thought of my DH thinking I should be accepting. I have to protect myself and my boys from any further hurt.
I hate the thought of them having any influence on our boys, as it is always negative and uncomfortable and they only talk about themselves and never engage on a personal level with me or the boys.
Anyone else dreading father's day?