So H's eldest daughter goes from ignoring us like we don't exist for I don't know how long to suddenly being oh so inviting to everything she can think of

It was Go Carting recently for H and SGS, then last week it was to tell dh that SGS has his hockey tryout skate and did we want to come as it's SGS's first, then today she calls dh to invite us to Thanksgiving dinner

And of course H's family has had get together's inbetween so it's practically every weekend his daughter is calling him about getting together for something

This would all be fine and just wonderful except all the while she goes out of her way at every opportunity to PAS SGS against me, H sees it happening too although he doesn't like to talk about it....just one more of her conniving ways to pay me back for being in her father's life

So this evening H says to me out of the blue that his eldest called him. I say "uh huh" thinking 'here we go' so he says she is inviting us to her place for Thanksgiving. He tells me that she says she invited FIL and H's sister but hasn't heard back from either of them. H says to me he is surprised FIL didn't tell him this when he spoke with him earlier today. Then H says he asked his daughter if BM and her mother were coming over for Thanksgiving. H's daughter says that BM and her mother can't make it this year, strange...? but then H says to me he told his daughter that we already had my family coming over

Now, if H's daughter wasn't such a sneaky conniving bitch to me I would immediately invite her and her family over for Thanksgiving. However, since she is a sneaky conniving bitch, not a chance

I'm sure the next thing coming from H is 'why don't we invite my daughter and her family to our place'

While we were having dinner this evening after H tells me all of this, he says he thought it was nice of his daughter. I calmly said to him "no H, not when your daughter does the things she does to me where SGS is concerned. No, she is not nice to me, at all"

H went quiet. End of discussion

Seriously?!!!