Bingo I figured it out !!

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http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/beautiful-minds/201001/why-are-narciss...

I have seen the light after reading this very interesting article !

Anyone out here who is dealing with a narcissistic parent/skid
Please read this ~ it's helps understand the crazy ass thought process.

Interesting how initially the narcassist appears popular n oh how short lived that first impression is. It's amazing how this explains why BM & SD can't keep friendships or relationships.

My curiosity sparked up n question how many of us on here are dealing with this very subject ???

It's hilarious that my fiancé

It's hilarious that my fiancé fell for her trap n she came up preg after that broke up. She might be beautiful on the outside but soon they all see the light. Everyone of her relationship after fiancé ~ last for about 4 years.

Hey when you lay down with crazy ~ you better put a hat on it boys !

Great lesson to teach my children ~ steer clear !!!

Daughter is her clone ~ but hers is a little worse ~ even her friends are starting to see the light.

Ha ha ha ha ~ enjoy your miserable life !!

Are they born that way or

Are they born that way or bred ???
I feel better now that I have a little more education about her way ~ realizing that crazy is never gonna change n I should give up trying. This has nothing to do with maturity ~ they will never "grow" out of it. No rationality will ever be used ~ crazy can t rationalize like normal people do

Question ~ does your DH see

Question ~ does your DH see it or are simply picking on her ???

My fiancé sees issues w ex wife without a title of course n did agree w a comment I made about SD bring just like BM. I think if I ever blurted out the title of them he would agree w ex wife but not my daughter.

It's interesting how fiancé's siblings see the BM/sd for what they are but never speak of sd behavior. Maybe it's because fiancé might cut them at the knees for picking on his precious spawn.

We have had in depth conversation of her symptoms but I think he excuses them for her immaturity. Ahhhhhh no sweetie pie you made a perfect narcassist pretty in pink.

Kind of like ~ ADD. Just wish

Kind of like ~ ADD. Just wish there was medication for it !!!

Fiancé sees it when it's

Fiancé sees it when it's blanten ~ I see it ALL !!

The center of attention bs, provocative clothing , the inappropriate language of " titties n referring to her friends as bitches" ~ drugs , you can only be her friend if you hate who she hates. She bullied my daughter in school got the principal involved she snowed the principal to believe she only wanted her clothing returned.the clothing sat in the principals office till the last day of school. Not the issue ~ clearly. You got it gf ~ here are all your belongings in a garage bag just your size. She has egged my house ~ she loathes me. N the feeling was mutual long b4 she turned on me.

She left our house ~ to never return. Fine with me ~ winning.

My fiancé asked me to give her a second chance ( believe me it would have been more like her 20th chance) ~ told him. Not gonna happen in my lifetime. I will never give her another chance ~ she will never change n I refuse to sacrifice my own children to her ludacrious behavior. I will not wear a straight jacket in my home ~ just for kicks for her.
Told him you can see her ~ wherever n whenever you want but not in my children's home. She can miss all the holidays ~ I don't care.

She bullied your child AND

She bullied your child AND egged your home and your fiancé is still trying to gloss over and get you to give her another chance? Oh this frightens me. Due to what I have going on.

I completely think you have every right to say NO WAY IN HELL!! There are many times I wish I would have told FH that we should wait until SS is out of the house before we married. The problem is, SS was only mildly an issue (over typical kid stuff and the occasional BIGGIE) prior to moving in together two years ago. Course that's probably due to the fact that SS went to grandma's and I only dealt with him for a few hours every evening. If I had it to do over, and I knew what I know now, I would have waited until he was put of the house before moving in, before marrying. And I'm at the point now, where DH and him can live somewhere else and DH can live here when his bio kids are gone until SS is out of the house. But oh, hind sight is 20/20 right?

And my ex husband. SERIOUS NARCISSIST!! Doing my best to keep my kids grounded and feet firmly in the ground instead of taking after their dad

Hanging ..... A lot of crap

Hanging .....
A lot of crap happened in between the shit starting to hit the fan with that beas never being allowed in my home. Around Xmas her bf was not permitted in my home. I guess she in turned started to get resentful n engaged in ridiculous behavior that surprised me cause everything she did to me had her name written all over it. Why she did it is beyond me !
After Xmas he asked me for another try n I said hell to the no. If I confused you ~ sorry so much shit has happened with this girl I just know it all bad. Fiancé knows she is never permitted in my house until myself n my kids get an apology n I m pretty much figuring that will never happen. I told fiancé ~ this is the only home my children have n I am not willing to sacrifice their feeling if safety n comfort for your daughter to just screw up again ~ ain't freakin happening. She was not going to control my house. Told him you can go see her wherever you want ~