Loved this article!!!! FH's biggest complaint about his ex is that she focused exclusively on the children to the detriment of their relationship. However, when we have them with us, I all but disappear in his obsessive quest to play Disney dad. Guess BM's lessons on how to be a "good parent" managed to sink in after all! But when I bring it up and tell him that I am drifting away from the relationship - just as he did with BM - he does not see the clear connection. With HIM it is different! Right....