The court system in Washington is terrible. It makes no sense at all. Nor does it uphold its own rulings. I have been friends with my wife many years before we every became seriously involved so her daughter is extremely important to me because i was there for it all. My wife and I have been battling with the BF for months and the court just seems to keep awarding him more and more. He is a 31 year old man who lives at his moms and has not had a job since 2006.NO car, drug history (just pot)The court has ordered him to get a job. Has he? No. Ordered him to pay child support. Has he? No. Ordered him to pay half daycare. Has he? well you get the idea. My wife has done and documented everything the court asked of her. Even switched jobs to accommodate.Yet despite this the court keeps awarding him more time. Which was okay. At first. But what really has me and my wife pissed off is we had in in a pre school daycare program for toddlers.We felt it is important for social skills and it provides structure, schedule, and learning opportunities for her. (Side note her behavior was excellent when she started going to this). Now he took her back to court saying he wanted to provide the day care.WTF? and they awarded it to him. Now my wife has to report when she is going to work and when she is off work via text message. There is a no contact order in place against him.(verbally abusive to wife in front of everybody except males.) Her behavior since then has gone down the tubes. What in the hell. How is he supposed to get a job or support her if hes daycare? We stated to the court if it is a financial burden on him then we would pay for the preschool ourselves with no payback needed.(We don't need his money) And still the court said it would save us money. We want her in a structured environment with opportunities to learn and play with many different kids. He has no job and can't pay for anything but he can keep paying his lawyer to keep taking my wife back to court.
All we really want is my SD to have the best available opportunities to grow and learn. My wife and I have plenty of money.We don't want his money but the court should not allow this when he can't even follow the courts orders. He is just a little weasel. Bad mouths my wife in front of people when they were together and now including my SD before the no contact order but not in front of males he finds a threat. Refuses to look me in the eye or even say a word to me. Even when i tried to tell him SD was sick and the medicine we were giving her. The courts have caught him in lies and made a statement about my wife that she was a drug addict. (She has never done any)
and told the court I was a drug dealer and have no job and abusive to my wife.) I have a damn masters degree and steady employment since I was 16. He comes up with some odd crap.

It is like the court is leaving us with one option to move far away which I can do with my job no problem. But we like where we live.

This hole thing makes me want to aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!