So in brief bm sucks and doesn't and cannot care for ss 9. Dh and I took bm to court for full custody in Nov and lost. (she got a job and a stable place and because dh was recently laid off she didn't look unfit, or more unfit) Blah blah blah, in January of 2012 bm decides she wants to move back to her parents 3 hours away to go to beauty school. We wrote up an agreement to include every other weekend visitation, child support and a return date of June 15th after she graduated. NONE OF WHICH HAVE HAPPENED! In the court agreement we have ss in july and bm has him in august. Bm brings him home last night and doesn't say anything to dh about when she will pick him up, where she lives, when school is out... DH has emailed, text called, emailed, text, called, and no response on when she will take responsibility. So I call, ask, she says no she will not be in town on her week, yells, hangs up and doesn't answer any calls from DH either :jawdrop: DH calls her folks, her mother states she still has a LOT of schooling and will not return to our area. SS also tells us that he barely saw her over the month and that she would sometimes spend days away and then tell him she had car trouble. No call, or anything! Now DH and I are forced to take her back to court to have her sign over her rights, she doesn't even live here!! How the hell will she get him to school or whatever? And in what world can you just assume something so big as "O, you guys can still take care of him right?"

Now don't get me wrong DH and I are okay with taking care of ss and don't really need her money but we sure as hell can't afford to take her to court every year!!! UGH the nerve of some people. I need to have a fundraiser!!!!!!! Any suggestions?!