sd11 just spent the last year at bm's in texas. we are in fl. i have been with bf for almost 5 years and sd was primarily staying with us but wanted to try living with her mom. so after she tried to have me arrested on false charges to be sent to her moms, she went for last school year.

she came back june 13th. since then, here is what we have dealt with:

1. first 2-3 nights she didnt sleep all night, took nap around 3pm the next day from exhaustion.

2. from then till now, i have had calls from bm 3 different nights (around 2am) that sd was on internet chatting. my friend on another night told me the same thing. computer has since been taken out of room at night.

3. seriously hyper and acting entitled during the day. not getting along with my bd2. too damn free with her hands (slepping my bf if he says something she doesnt like or is teasing her ect)

4. and tonight, i awake to my bd2 in my bed then on MY computer. its 3:30am. after putting her back to bed i find out sd11 had taken her out of crib when she awoke for diaper change, changed her diaper and just 'hung out" with her in sd's room, apparently till she was done "babysitting" and then let her do whatever. sd claimed she woke up my bf, who i might add i s such a heavy sleeper you could ask him a question in the middle of the night and he'll give you the square root of 43332.....no lie its happened, he is just not there if awoken from a dead sleep. and sd has been told this time and again.

i have a baby monitor for bd2 but since sd's return i have gone to bed way late to spend some time with bf that i go into a dead sleep and wont hear her cry if she wakes up in the middle of the night. sd's bedtime is 10pm. apparently she doesnt go to sleep as told and doesnt stay in her room. ia m so fuckin tired during the day from interrupted sleep i am a major bitch. i start school in the fall, a full courseload to get pell grant, how the fuck can i do that and stdy and take care of my bd2 and get a job if this shit is gonna happen?

oh and bm stayed with us for 2 weeks she just left. during that time sd was of course horrible. i am going to make an appointment with pedi int he am cause i think that sd has a real problem here with the hyper activity, grabbing my bf's nipples while they wrestle, tickles him all the time, the fact that she wants energy drinks and coffee and now trying to act like "mommy" to my bd2. i am certain therapy is in order, but you know i am so sick of this shit i cant take the fuckin "poor entitled skid mommy left you poor baby" bullshit anymore.

what does this sound like to any of you? in tx, a friends mom gave the girls the energy frinks and coffee. she tried pulling that shit here i said no way so did bf. i personally think she has been sexually active or abused, probably by bm's now ex bf who lived with them in tx. we ask sd but she denies anything from anyone. even before going to tx i suspected it. from day one in the relatonship. she was always in daddy's bed, she wets the bed (not as bad now), was always clingy to him, too affectionate that it would make him not want to be around her, tickle him too much, snuggle too much.....we've had her in therapy before tx and her mom was suppossed to do it in tx but never did. bf is worried about this too. and no, he would NEVER EVER do anything, it has to be some other male, or hell maybe female, if that is the case.