Why does bm HAVE tp make a big deal out of NOTHING??
Sun when it was time to drop the boys off with bm she texted dh to call her. (now as most can remember dh will not talk to bm unless she states why he needs to talk to her). Dh texed back asking what it was about. She said NEVER MIND! Dh was ok must not be important then ans went on. Then ss15 gets a call from his mom saying that her aunt will be picking them up instead. Ok fine no problem. Then dh gets a text that said "it is sad I have to call our son to relay mess." Dh texted back that all she had to do was text HIM that her aunt was picking them up no big deal!.
Why was that a big deal?? Why could she not just text it to dh the first time? Why did she HAVE to call ss15? Why did she HAVE make it sound as though dh was the bad guy??? :sick:
Because she wants the
Because she wants the illusion of control still. She figures that making him out to be the bad guy will FORCE him to talk to her when SHE wants him to.
Same with our BM. She would pull the same crap (or she would leave messages ACTING like she was calling about something to do with the skids - then when he called back she'd be yelling and freaking out about something else...usually money). She did that until the day that the court added the No Contact unless Emergency clause to the CO.
And even after that she still contacted him, it was just a LOT more infrequently.
I know Dh just ignored her
I know Dh just ignored her after he told her she could have just texted him.
Dh started limiting her contact a long time ago b/c of crap like that. And that she would call screaming about something that had nothing to do with dh or the kids. Or my fav. was she wanted to talk about her life! :sick:
I just couldn't handle all that so dh only talks to her when he has to.
However her trying to control dh did not work lol.
I got one of those BM's.
I got one of those BM's. UGH!!! You are divorced!! You are not friends!!! Call your mother if you want to talk about your F'd up life and poor decisions!!!
It's all control. Actually my ex used to do it to me. He would call and I would let it go to voicemail. The message would always be, "Hey call me back I have a quick question for you." I would end up on the phone for an hour!! So now, I text him back and ask what the question is.
I have one of those BMs as
I have one of those BMs as well. What I don't get is why do you want to control somebody or try to keep them in your life when they hate your freaking guts. We have gone to email contact only unless there is an emergency schedule change then she can text SO. The only time she is allowed to call him directly is if one of the kids needs immediate medical attention. She fought it at first. But I think that she gets it or is atleast starting to get it at the moment. It may just be because she has a new man in her life too.
Wow! This is my first time
Wow! This is my first time on this site and I can't believe that so many people have to go through this BS with jealous Biological Mothers! I have been dealing with a jealous, control-freak for ELEVEN years now. I wish I would have visited this site years ago.
OMG yes..I also deal with a
OMG yes..I also deal with a crazy, nut job BM....she went as far as to block me from my SD's facebook account which is fine because I was not her "friend" on there as I do not want her BM knowing our business...so imagine I am not my SD's friend on Facebook but her mom blocked me (this is in another one of my posts). So SD and I communicate via email because we see each other EOW and it's a nice way to keep in touch..well 2 nights ago her BM blocked me on my SD's email account...
So yes some BM's are evil, evil..evil.... Z