Last spring I had a pleasant surprise knock on memories door, I had not talked to nor seen my "high school love" in over 25 years, so to my delight he had "found" me online (Facebook) I am married, but neither my husband nor I get jealous of "old flames" ect...

His email to me was copied below:

hey little girl, you have know idea how long i looked for you, i called information, asked
anyone i thought that knew you. i did find a girl that knew you from the town you live in
and tried to get her to find you for me. ( no luck ). about 21 or 22 years ago. i also looked
about 2 months ago when i past through. ( again no luck )
if you remember you were not shy with me, lol, it was me. i was in love with you but scared to death of you. you were to much for a little boy like me. reading your profile we sound a lot a like now. i hope you like the pictures i know i always did.

i'm tired and will talk to you later, hug your self for me OK, goodnight
******
(He had forwarded some photos of me I didn't remember that he had)

My response to him:

> From: hangingin
> To: ******
> Subject: Re: The pics of me!
> Date: Sun, 5 Apr 2009 14:23:06 -0500
>
> I "worked" on those oldies a little, see how you like them.
hangingin

His response back:

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL
now i remember even more why i was so intimidated, i think i'd run now if i met that girl
is that weird or what ? i want to see if i can print them and put them in a album.
i was just trying to learn about girls back then and i thought you were to much girl for me
and i could not understand why you liked me instead of the more popular guys or guys with cars or spending money. it's funny i tried to ignore you (not that i really wanted to) but to me you
were overwhelming and i thought i could never keep up with you (as boy friend girl friend )
and you would end up making a joke or making fun of me. truth is... i was just scared
again thank you for the touch up, i'll keep them for another 35 years or so. there is not many
other things i've kept that long.
hug your self for me.
******

So we did get together at a restaurant (I kept telling him "I'm not the same girl you remember" but he insisted on meeting anyway) and so we met. It was a very nice visit, we caught up on each others lives and he is newly divorced raising his 2 kids, a 14 year old daughter and 12 year old son, been married 3 times, from what he had told me, his ex-wife was having an affair, and actually got caught by him AND his 12 year old (at the time) daughter walked in on her Mom.
We exchanged emails & cell numbers promising to keep up with each other ect... the last time I had talked to him was around Thanksgiving, he had to hang up quickly due to issues with his EX and daughter. So I continued to email funny little things you send friends ect... and leave a few cell messages thinking he was too busy (and problems with EX) to get back with me. I felt since I had the experience in this field of crazy EX's he might benefit from it. I was just being the friendly type person that I have always been.
But to my SURPRISE, I get a "FRIEND REQUEST" from his daughter. I think how nice, so I friend her and lo and behold, she sends the following "messages" to me!!!
I'm like WHAT THE HELL BROUGHT THIS ON??????

***I have copied EXACTLY what she wrote***

Message from his daughter:
Take this in the nicest way possible please.
But my dad is not interseted in you.
He is sweet,yes.
But your to the point of annoying.
So chill out.
You call him at LEAST four times a day,not including emails.
He hasn't gotten back to you not even once,if that doesn't give you a hint your dumb as hell.
Leave him alone.
Seriously.
He is obviously not intreested.
He told me your nice,yes,but way too clingy and annoying.
It will NEVER work for ya'll.
So give it up babydoll.
Have a blessed day(:

I SENT BACK THIS "MESSAGE"
I'm married sweetie! My interests are in my HUSBAND. I have a LIFE here.
I haven't talked with him in 30 years or so, He is the one who looked me up, and I have MANY friends, just thought I would have a friend in him. I am trying to take this in the sweetest way, but honey you ARE being RUDE, and NO I'm not DUMB. I have been down the EX WIFE trail before and have NO DESIRE to repeat myself.
I'm sorry if I'm sounding rude to you, but sweetie your Dad has WAY TOO MUCH BAGGAGE for me, jus sayin!!!! I just thought he would like a friend to talk with who has been down the same road he seems to be on, so no offense taken. YOU and your DAD have a BLESSED DAY k?

Her Response:
Listen up "sweetie".
I'm not a idiot.
I know your ways,cause I have a hoe for a mom.
I know how you think.
And how you play your games.
Your a whore..
I know your married.
And yes,you call him and email him everyday.
Cause i'm there when he's like ughhh she's calling again.
That annoying person.
She needs to quit and get the message.
HE is not intersested in someone who is a cheater because HE has been down the hoe road before.
You need to chill out.
And quit lieng to me and yourself.
Because I know your game and how it's played.
I've been through this crap before.
Yes,you are rude,and you know what so am I.
No ones perfect and I don't try to be.
I'm not a little girl so stop talking to me like one.
And though i'm not living with him any longer YOU EVER SAY ANOTHER THING ABOUT MY DAD LIKE THAT I DON'T CARE HOW OLD AND SAGGY YOU MAY BE I'LL HUNT YOU DOWN AND BEAT YOUR A**.
dON'Y THINK I WONT.
So Jesus loves you,beleive me he does.
Get yourstory strait.
And tell your husband your calling and emailing a guy everyday,see how he feels huh babydoll?

She then emailed:
Are you going to message back????

My response:
I'm not in the Drama game anymore....hope you have a great life!

And she then messaged back:

Ohh,yes,I will indeed(:
And I know why you don't want to type back.
Just like everyone else who is unluky enough to get in a n arguement with me.
They have nothing to say.because they wknow what I'm saying is truth and only the truth.
Because all I speak is the truth.
See if you can deny that.
(:

I did not respond from that point on, but I thought to myself, if this man does not have the BALLS God gave him to let me know he dosen't even want to be friends, he has got some MAJOR ISSUES, and his little girl has definitely got problems he needs to take care of!
I just copied her "messages" she sent to me and forwarded them to him with a note attached:

IF you know about these, then I truly feel sorry for you AND your daughter, but IF you know NOTHING about her activities, then MAN UP and take CARE OF YOUR DAUGHTER AS SHE OBVIOUSLY NEEDS IT!!!
HAVE A GREAT LIFE AND GOODBYE!

I have had problems with my SD and her BM,but my SD has NEVER talked to me or about her BM like this, EVER!! But this little girl takes the cake, the candles AND ice cream!!!!
OMG!
hangingin