Trying to remain calm here!!
My SD13 just got back from her 2 hour supervised visit with her BM, which happens EOWE at a professional center. Anyway, every time she gets done her visit, BM showers her with gifts, etc. Which she never used to give her anything. Well for the past 4 months EOWE visits end in bags and bags of gifts, and today is no different. BUT this time SD gets a collage picture frame full of pics of her BM and her half-sibling. I feel like throwing up. It's so revolting and a slap in the face to my SD that I want to scream. Anyway, I know I'll get through it, I just really really really feel like screaming! Of course when you're absent from your child's life on a regular basis over the course of 13 years, it's totally okay to buy their love and affection right?! Sorry, just SUPER irritated and did I mention, I want to scream!
So the 13yo got a bunch of
So the 13yo got a bunch of pictures of her bio-mother and half sibling. Leave the 13 yo alone and see where it ends up. Likely without help it won't be on a wall in her bedroom but even if it does lets let this kid have something to remember her mother by. At least Mommy is trying now.